Showing posts with label role models. Show all posts
Showing posts with label role models. Show all posts

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Adults

I am convinced that one of the reasons why children have lost all respect for their elders is because their television shows depict adults as morons and children as the geniuses who know everything!

How many sitcoms have children doing all sorts of things and the adults (parents, teachers, store clerks, etc) are clueless about what is actually going on? How many times do children get away with things and the adults never do anything to correct the behavior?

Children need to grow up seeing strong adults leading by example. Entertainment has a strong influence on children. Young children watch those shows and movies and believe it is a reflection of reality. They don't have a firm grasp on the differences between fiction and nonfiction. . . yet. They need to see strong adults leading by example in real life as well as in the entertainment they watch.


Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Men

A while back I posted my thoughts on feminism. Well, now I want to talk about men.

I find it very sad that as we try to make strong role models for women, that men are being put down. Where are the strong role models for men? Why can't we have a strong role model for girls at the same time having a strong role model for boys?

Why is it that in sitcoms the dad is the "dumb" one and the mom is the "intelligent" one. Mom is the one who can balance a check book, but don't ask dad to do it! That's a role reversal right there! If you need help with homework, go to mom 'cuz dad doesn't know what he is doing! Another role reversal.

Why aren't boys doing well in school? Why should they? Entertainment media (movies and shows) are telling boys that they aren't smart. Men just aren't that smart. Well, that just isn't true, now is it? Of course it isn't!

Okay, so that isn't the only reason why boys aren't doing well in school, but don't tell me it isn't a contributing factor. . . 'cuz it is.

Let's create strong role models for girls without taking away the role models for boys.

Sure boys have their superhero role models and though they can get some great character building skills from those characters, they need to see real life role models. Men that they can grow up to be. As much as they would like to, the will not grow up to be Iron Man or Batman.